| date |  Wed, Nov 19, 2008 at 2:22 AM |
| subject | for love, for life |
Hiiiiii Dear ,When u will be reading this I think it will be morning then ....so I hope u very warm morning ....hope my wish kick ur day by a ton ...U know yesterday u told me your bit of criteria to be a good wife ...correct me if I am wrong ...U said trust, commitment,good chracter ....I totally buy your point ...But wanted to add something more to it ....
In life, many thoughts are born in the course of a moment, an hour, a day. Some are dreams, some visions. Often, we are unable to distinguish between them. To some, they are the same; however, not all dreams are visions. . To have a vision, one must be prepared to receive it, and when it comes, to accept it. Thus when these inner urges become reality, only then can visions be fulfilled. The spiritual side of life knows everyone's heart and who to trust. How could a vision ever be given to someone to harbor if that person could not be trusted to carry it out. The message is simple: commitment precedes vision.....right ??
Now next thing is dat I think....... U missed love ..Dont u think it should find a decent place in your list of criteria....???? Love is like pi - natural, irrational, and very important in ones life .Some says Love a temporary insanity, curable by marriage.Do u feel so ??? I dont think so ....Love at first sight is easy to understand; it's when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle.Hope we can do this bit of miracle in our life ..If you have love in your life it can make up for a great many things you lack. If you don't have it, no matter what else there is, it's not enough.And I'm really grateful to have something that I'm passionate about and that I think is profoundly important. If you were all alone in the universe with no one to talk , no one with which to share the beauty of the stars, to laugh with, to touch, what would be your purpose in life? It is other life, it is love, which gives your life meaning. This is harmony. We must discover the joy of each other, the joy of challenge, the joy of growth.
Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking,it does not parade itself
It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
....Bible
For me life is like a box of crayons. Most people are the 8-color boxes, but what you're really looking for are the 64-color boxes with the sharpeners on the back. I fancy myself to be a 64-color box, though I've got a few missing. It's ok though, because I've got some more vibrant colors like periwinkle at my disposal....Its u ....Have you ever been at sea in a dense fog, when it seemed as if a tangible white darkness shut you in and the great ship, tense and anxious, groped her way toward the shore with plummet and sounding-line, and you waited with beating heart for something to happen? I was like that ship before I met u , only I was without compass or sounding line, and no way of knowing how near the harbor was. "Light! Give me light!" was the wordless cry of my soul, and the light of your love shone on me in that very hour....Where there is love there is life.I got my life back ....
Love is like a campfire: It may be sparked quickly, and at first the kind throws out a lot of heat, but it burns out quickly. For long lasting, steady warmth (with delightful bursts of intense heat from time to time), you must carefully tend the fire.
I love thee, I love but thee
With a love that shall not die
Till the sun grows cold,
And the stars grow old...
And guess what ??? To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved and u also trust me....I am plain lucky ...Ur amee is lucky ...And I promise u not to break ur trust ever ...ever
Wid a hope to see ur name popping up in mailbox early ... m sleeping now ..
Urs Forever
Riya.
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Reply to Riya::
| date | Wed, Nov 19, 2008 at 3:22 PM |
| subject | Re: for love, for life |
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Dearest Riya, I am very happy that you have started thinking again, as you said you stopped.
Albert Einstein said: Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning.
Well, I haven't really let you count touchstones for a prefect wife. It was the answer of your question "Why do you think that I have not lost the original Priyanka from me within?" – something like that. You are right; these virtues are some integral part of any relationship. Perhaps, I have adverted that no one is perfect and nothing is perfect for any one. Obstinately, I am NOT expecting 64-bit colours in you, not even 8-bit too… because I prefer a rainbow of 7 colours to a digital screen. I am good with that. I believe there are only three basic colours from which all 7 colours of a beautiful rainbow are made of. Likewise we all have some basic qualities and some unfitness.
Any way Riya, tell me now do you really want to ask me the criteria of a good wife? Hope not…!! You are more than a best spouse for me… the best friend may be!!! So there is no point of missing love in any criteria list, guess its clear now. Love is being defined in more and more beautiful ways one after another preciously in a convincing way, since the god had created his most loveable ones. How can I abnegate its worm touch from life and in any relation?
Truly said, you can fall in love even with enemies if keep exchanging feelings with them. It's so spontaneous, so self proclaimed and instinctual in nature.
Please do not compare it to fire. It does not burn; it wouldn't fade way anything after it was there. Instead, it nurtures a person like a young flower till it has agametes to grow another young one. Nothing is like love; it gives you pleasure, happiness, sorrow, tension, security and insecurity as well. Commitment and trust are some of the important ingredients and commanding forces which make flow of love streamline (in your words -delightful bursts of intense heat).
Dense mist may cover your sight to the destiny, but that doesn't mean that you are not heading towards your destiny. You need to confident enough and well equipped to overcome any obstacle between you and your destiny. Let both of us be companions in the rough journey of LIFE to a similar destiny and let love bind us together tighter.
I suppose, we both have same view points in this regard.
I know you won't break the promise, and I promise you the same.
Cheers..!!
Ronnei
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"Dream is not what you see in sleep is the thing which does not let you sleep."-APJ
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